RELATIVE MODALITY

MODALS OF CONSCIOUSNESS

SORROWS

A great deal of modality pertains to negotiating social structures. In the human being, our own minds are driven by social adaptations, and inherent neural connections that map out sensations with packets of activity. We defend ourselves, we reach out for change, we establish balance, or... for many, we negotiate boundaries of problematic circumstances.

It's difficult to discern how we become the way we are. Our natural tendencies have much to do with the application of energy and awareness through nature's given tendencies. However, while we live life from this prerogative, the human creature is endlessly assessing the circumstances around oneself, and on several layers, and in dozens of reactive compartments, which are compiled from thousands of memories of interactions, we are guiding ourselves into 'best possible outcomes'.

We are crafted by our thoughts, activities, and environments - but the extent of which aspect causes use the most dramatic shifts in consciousness - undoubtedly social connotations play the biggest role.

While this can be debated, simple observation and experience will dictate that the human being is more deeply affected by our overall connections with people.

Our perception of the environment, how to get along, how to fit in, and the ways adjustments occur can be swift and the changes large. Even the most robust personality can become undone, altered, changed, diminished by repeat incidences with harmful personas. The human being is capable of great peace and happiness unless health and social connectivity is challenge. It is quite dramatic that social issues can affect the state of mind as deeply, if not more so, than much physical or even mental debilitation.

The modalities of one person affect the modalities of another person. The limited containers of modality as forged by a social environment can push and pull, and change, any person who becomes a part of that environment. Very strong minds, with very robust principles can be afflicted and derailed in such odd ways as to make that person resemble the perpetrator of their affliction more than even themself. There is power in numbers, and unfortunately, the larger the agitating environment, the more lost the individual can become. Rising above can become a great challenge. Humanity has posited this inherent challenge every step of the way.

SYSTEMS OF IMPACT

Maps of troubling modalities and alleviation points

SOURCES OF SORROW

- Imbalance
- Neglect
- Unfairness
- Inequality
- Injustice
- Instigation
- Meanness
- Obstruction
- Threat

EASING SORROW

- Shift of Consciousness
- Mobility
- Awareness
- Facing the Truth
- Accepting That Change is Eminent
- Seeing Other's Accountability
- Holding Oneself Accountable
- Protest
- Leaving
- Creating Change

DISTRESS CYCLE

As human beings, we are vulnerable, and ongoing systems of activities often exacerbate that condition. We can face problematic conditions, and environments of people that challenge the very nature of what we truly believe the human purpose to be. We can enter emotional arrangements and find ourselves dealing with treacherous people, petty mentalities, aggressive physical or verbal attempts to take something away from you.

Few people make it through life without finding the need to defend themselves, and in these conditions the mind reaches for ample resources. However the process of defense is exhausting, and the active resourceful mind may find themselves quite disheveled....

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Sometimes it is best for the person to flee the situation, but in many cases, the mind will not immediately allow that to occur. Instead the mind enters the distress cycle to try to overcome the adversarial problem - and if the problem is distressing, the mind can reach a state of spooling, with dramatic cycles of disarray caused by loops of this Distress Cycle.

These are the conditions of this cycle with some detail:

DEPRESSION: The condition of sapped energy, withdrawal, a lack of modality structure for outgoing energy. Also a restraint or blockage for useful receptivity. A state of muted balance and suspension of enlivenment.

REPRESSION: Outward influence to stint or counteract a person's ability to express themselves or expand their awareness as appropriate
OPPRESSION: Outward dominance of a person's activity or reaches to achieve well-being. Sabotage of intuition through instigated efforts to undermine a person's state of consciousness.

ANGST: The state of locked up energy, walled by some condition, to prevent proper excursion. Agitation involved with prohibitive attempts to lock up and detain some part of a person's needed modality structure.

VENGEANCE: The desire to alter the course of influence. Ardor back-piles energy that tips the scales of balance within, in preparation for outward action or verbal intent.
VEHEMENCE: Compiling vitriol that develops from disgust towards source of influence - outward rage points increasingly towards desire for action.

RETRIBUTION: The state of intention for direct action or verbal recourse, with full intention to dissuade or conquer the opposing influence. This urge is often tied with a proportional measure, that a person might aggressively imagine exacting revenge in direct proportion, or more severe, to the opposing influence.

VICTORY: The state of analyzing or reveling in the idea of overcoming the opponent of thought. Often leading to a temporary suspension of outward energy, that leaves a space of absence. If the mind is spooling, then this short moment of relief will often be fleeting, as the moods cycle over different aspects of this Distress Cycle
MALAISE: As the need for exaction in the removal or conquering of the opposing influence extends - there is a diminishing of resources, and a phase of exhaustion for the prevailing distress of the entire cycle. The effects of inflammation and distress make this phase one of exhaustion. The cycle may stop here, but likely will continue other rounds of all these conditions, if the mind is in a spooling condition.

REPETITIVE EMOTIONAL STRESS CYCLE

Situations of control and so-called power are leverage pressures that serve to distort natural emotional patterns. This contorts logic in a suppressed individual forcing them to try to think in another person's terms. This is a secondary style of thinking - which if forced into greater depths creates a damaged personality. This means a person can be contorted into estranged ways of being, that separate them from their self-understanding, desires, and the energy within them.

Depressive and repressive states (non-chemical) come from repetitive cycles of disruption or disgrace - where social conditions can manipulate self-worth and self-empowerment. These outcomes are not always expressly evident, but play out in deeper layers over time.

In other situations, extreme control is attempted from one person over another. These situations usually involve great amounts of leverage - financial, natural stability, contractual, or through natural imbalance in dominance and submission between two people...

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For higher consciousness, conditions of control carry extreme liability, as misuse of leverage or so-called power, is extremely detrimental to one's own evolution of consciousness. However, for animalistic human beings, they disregard this progression and instead may indulge in the lewdest, or most self-centered organization of thinking when it comes to handling control of another living creature in even the most subtle levels.

This is the cycle endured by a person forced, one way or another, to field and endure the tragedy of such experiences. The cycle can run deep, become wholly self-altering, and lead to a very traumatic way of being.

Here are the terms of this cycle described:

DISRUPTION: entering a new situation can be very positive, however when this cycle begins, it starts from the realization of negligence towards the evolution of consciousness - an individual may realize they are beginning to endure a struggle for self-control, for equal interactions, and the start to a painful set of incidences might start to color the emotional palette.

DISCOMFORT: interactions may begin show as very lopsided, the influencer exhibiting questionable directions of intent. Awkward pressures cause the inflicted to feel discomfort on an emotional level, maybe subtle, maybe unsubtle.

DISCLOSURE: The influencer in some way displaces the arrangement, and reveals definite lop-sided tendencies. They are exerting leverage intentionally to overcome strong or subtle cues in the inflicted. Behavior manipulation seems present, if even subtly. The influencer makes it clear in some way that their own interests are more important than the inflicted.

DISGUST: The inflicted begin to see unapproachable tendencies, and they sense a forward path of difficulty. They realized they are under leverage of a person they do not like, and do not trust. This leads to emotional turmoil, and disgusted that grows from reflections of the influence.

DEGENERATION: Repeat endurance of gross use of leverage, and repeated ineffective attempts to dissuade the influence leads to some level of internal fight-or-flight initiation. The increased level of baseline stress leads to greater constant energy expenditure. Additional gross uses of leverage by the influencer lead to greater degeneration of self-stability in the inflicted.

DENIGRATION: In these cases, usually the influencer will begin to apply pressures to reduce self-worth in the inflicted. This will not necessarily reduce self-worth at all, but it will increase the emotional stress of the situation. Discovering additional animalistic qualities in the influencer leads to a cycle of disgust and disregard. The baseline level of stress is likely increasing.

DISREPUTATION: The inflictor will likely begin to use words to socially box in the inflicted. There is a double-sided problem at this stage. The influence likely fears their inability to lead will lead to their disreputation - this creates a reverse action, to intentionally try to attack the reputation of the inflicted. The words used might take on a smear tonality, or become dissuasive towards the inflicted to reduce their concept of self, to keep them from fighting or fleeing.

DELIVERANCE: The first portion of this cycle has likely reached crescendo, and begins to lead to a distinct, and permanent situation of one side versus the other side. The influencer will begin to seem disconnected and prepared to use leverage without consideration. The inflicted will likely become very agitated inside, expend a great deal of energy outside of these interaction, mentally coping with the absurdity or dire nature of this arrangement.

DISMAY: If this arrangement prolongs, the inflicted will likely enter a constant state of dismay. The arrangement has moved into unabashed toxicity. The inflicted moves into a state of pure coping.

DISCORD: The fight or flight conditions cease to be met properly. The influencer has likely reached a state of pure awkwardness and inability to see or understand themselves in the situation. The inflicted has likely become subdued in all natural energy, and exhibits their own version of discord constantly.

DISGRACE: If the situation continues, the ability for the inflicted to hang on to their old sense of self-worth is likely diminishing, if not almost fully extinguished. Distress habits form, there is risk of introductory neurosis, or stress-patterning. The influencer is likely consumed in their own self-worth, and remains totally unable to reflect on the situation, and act in any kind of appropriateness.

DECOUPLING: The inflicted is now totally removed from the situation, and endures the predicament with pure immediacy at hand. They are likely consumed in emotional or logic patterns that involve the need to escape and severe ties.

DISREGARD: The inflicted has become an itemized being in the situation. The influencer has yielded so-called power so inappropriately that the inflicted no longer is able to consider the influence as a human worth consideration. The influence is revealed as a neurotic creature who acts on impulses of self-interest.
- This leads to a state of numbness in the inflicted. Interactions between the influencer and the inflicted are likely 100% staged with no real expression taking place whatsoever.

DEREGULATION: The inflicted has been forced into a second way of existence in the presence of the influencer. They are no longer participating in a way that is genuine or contains satisfaction. By removing the human element, the influencer has induced a state of pure fiction - manifesting only ingenuine behavior themselves, and finally receiving the same in return. Contorting the will of others in imbalanced leverage leads to the largest disgraces of humankind, and in such cases, the inflicted often enter a state of war, a state of abandonment, or a completely false way of existence, the abandonment of self.

DEVASTATION: For the inflicted to enter such dire circumstances of abandoning self means the personality has been afflicted at every single modality point. Every modality chart has been altered, and the flow of natural energy is unable, in almost every extent, to continue in a satisfactory way. At this point, old healthy measures of self-regard is diminished or removed completely. This can lead to a final prolonged state of trauma:

THE DEVASTATED PERSONALITY COMPLEX DISORDER:

This condition can lead a person to unique extremes of mental situation. Their modality is so far injected with the trauma of the situation that a whole new personality can emerge - yet that personality is untested, and unknown. The inflicted can become a person they never knew they could be - suppressed, angry, unable to negotiate with themselves properly, weary of others, distinct lack of happiness, further abandonment of self...

This situation is the root and cause of all social suffering due to improper use of leverage and so-called power over others. It is the cycle of constant sorrows - the reason for most strife and war.

This cycle can also convert a normal healthy person into a shell of their old self - and in many cases, it can create a monster out of the inflicted that matches the abomination by which the influencer revealed themselves to be.

DISPLACING EMOTIONAL GRIEF

Energy cycling and social positioning based on perceived threat or causes of dismay. People perceive gain and loss in many instances, some of them strictly social. Emotional positioning, and rate of exchange can hinge on this process no differently than extreme cases of loss and suffering.

When a person feels Agitated, there is a likely redundant buildup, that harbors despair and worry beneath. If energy is projected in this state, onto another person, through one of the emotional projections (animosity, counter-negligence, Inebria) it will likely conjure a mirrored correlation. This means the other person ingests the condition of agitation then worry and despair if surrounded by Agitation over time.

It doesn't necessarily matter what logic is involved, thus emotionally charged logic dovetails and/or reaches Inebria - even if argued or dismissed, the condition will eventually create like circumstances in the enduring individual through repetitive encounters...

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All emotions seek some sort of grounding, as though electricity in passage. The logic and expression are conduits, but not necessarily related to the situation.

The fact is, in interactions we are being asked to bear exchange of energy, and so receive enlivenment or bear burden to some level, frequently. To exchange our self-stabilized emotional state for the momentary picture of the world that another person is trying to relate, portray, and captivate with requires change and energy. Thus, even though we have the ability to agree or disagree, the center-most part of us is being shifted by the displacia caused by becoming the magnetic receiver of the other person's electrical discharge.

In those moments, the listener is being asked or forced to be a mirror in which the other person is attempting to gather emotional registrations, in order to re-assess or stabilize their own center.

In the case of positive, non-volatile relations, this exchange can be drastically mind-altering, as a mind in stabilization playing the mirror for another person automatically captivates their own emotional centers - and, in sympathy to more easily bear the burden of change as well.

To ground the agitated, despairing, or worrisome is to risk conjuring those feelings in oneself, because they are very real, primitive emotions, thus any exposure will alter the worldview, on some level, subtle or great, no matter the degree of sympathy or repulsion.

Displaced emotional grief however equivelates to the passage of suffering. Emotionally intentful expressions that are directly applied onto another person in order to discharge their own negative condition.

A projectionist suffering from despair will climb out through rage or power-states which can only occur "over or towards others", so mentally there must be selected a target over whom to express that rage or power. This occurs as the shift from a self-deteriorating state to a converse state (easiest to accomplish) - which deteriorates the 'self' of another person.

Once the generalized or specific target is generated, a list of every foot-sweeping example begins to emotively surface, which logically erects score-keeping tallies, or smear campaigns.

The converse of agitation is to withhold positive response or manipulate through response through stone-walling or seduction - OR to step backwards towards rage or power movement.

Stone-walling & Seduction, Aggravation, Rage, or Power Movement however leave one vulnerable, because the greatest port for worries is sincere relation which is specifically blocked when power struggles and grief displacement shift energy in these ways. It for this reason, some attempt at false sincerity can take place in the form of Seduction. Which is a shield of deferment, to derail negative energy without direct conflict.

Because there is no sincere outlet, worry begins to consume a person if they feel stuck in a barricade of another person's power grabbing. This begins to have an isolating effect.

The converse of worry is to cause worry in others under false pretenses, thus bey degrading another or inducing fear through the creation of real or asympathetic worrying in others acts as the displacia.

These behaviors are so short lived, due to the often rapid cycling of these conditions, the fallout is always more isolated and also the consuming and permanent displacements of one's own center - thus they reverberate harshly and fast. One's own ability to read the mirror of others becomes displaced as well, which is when classic projection is unavoidably found.

If more energy or volition begins to infuse the cycle, the person displacing grief can cause their center to shift into Inebria: momentary impressions can begin to dig deeper, and on a full-fledged and activated sub-conscious level, the current experience appears to them as "the truth about how people really are". This is an emotional world-view shift. And so, from the exhaustive rebounding between Worry and the use of Degradation or Fear Induction, that person is left with Despair again. This can lead to slipping back to Degradation and Fear-Induction or instead to Rage and/or a surge to gain power through Power Movements, perhaps to feel Agitation for a longer period of time.

"Who we are will change - the question is change to what, by what cause, and whom will be pushing those buttons? Evolution of consciousness means removing the influence of the world when needed, in order to move towards the consciousness we currently understand to be needed most."

MODELS OF THE AUTOMATIC FIELDING OF SORROWS

Emotion patterns that can spool with the endurance of conflict

INDIGNITY

Degenerative thinking is the type of thought that gives or causes internal compensation and adjustment towards some source of conflict. Most degenerative thinking comes from rolling sensations and compound thought cycles that often spread very unevenly the incoming signals, internal projections, and outgoing parameters of thought. These adjustments cause conflict of poise and expression involved with these two simple qualities of these two simple qualities directly, subtly, or with complete lack of awareness of these facets...

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The root of this awareness parameter is indignity itself - or threat to the composure of self, internally or externally in social situations. The human modality system has a wide array of features to contend with the threats to Humiliation, or the reduction of status. In primal nature, the contention with hierarchies is a dramatic situation leading to vast differences in treatment by others.

The threat of humiliation could be split in two areas: one is non-traumatic, the other is traumatic, which can lead to threat of internal sense of total and utter disgrace through sporadic or repetitive "torture" in events or cycles of trauma.

Either forms of humiliation can affect a person short term, or even long term through life in horrid social conditions. However, even in more subtle versions, cycles of these emotional positions on this chart can be present and remain a theme through life. The qualities in this simple chart can be inhibited, varied, and constructed simply by the exchange of words, choices, preferences or opportunity in the countenance of people and in one's own mind.

THREAT CYCLE

Humiliation - Paranoia - Retribution

When damages cause internal defense, and when it becomes difficult to simply move on it's often because

looming threat still present
fear of erratic personality cannot be suspended
height of revolution still mounting
when past damages have exceeded workable levels
when a total split, or reluctance, seems immanent between two people.
Memories of conflict still reverberate
the historic conflict created a shift of world view, an altered emotionality that lingers still

Under these conditions, rational impulses can cause a person to move to:

total avoidance of another person
peaks of conflict
increasing malignant attempts for both sides to overcome the other side
attempts to force submission, avoidance, or halt activity of a certain kind

In these situations there is usually an Instigator (controller) and a Deflector (reactionary) who is being compressed upon towards the direction of some level of humiliation...

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Humiliation often comes from simple forms of control or dominance of some kind - it's not merely a matter of an incidence of embarrassment - rather Humiliation can entail whole chunks of a social arrangement, whole aspects of exchange rates, and become intertwined into conjoined modalities. While evidences may be subtle at first, in this cycle the Deflector is usually being imposed upon by the Controller, and the Deflector is being drawn into this cycle by incoming messages of further degradation.

The Deflector is generally in a more passive state - likely forced by leverage, but not necessarily - whereby seperation of individuals would bring a more ready relief.

The Controller/Instigator however is driven to greater pursuit in creating submission the more the Deflector attempts to move away and create emotional space.

This forward drive by the Controller is hinged on a basic sense of rejection which is the prime motive in the Conroller's personal emotional upheavals - as past patterns lead them into the primal state of trying to "kill" the modality in the Deflector, no differently than an attempt to kill another animal or enemy in primal combat.

The problem is that in the psychological sense - one cannot be "killed", thus the Controller can find no outlet for these primal drives, except from indulging in these emotions impulsively, allowing behaviors of control or domination to spill out.

Control dramas are intended to manipulate another person to alter their modality in a way that satisfies the Controller. The Deflector if unsatisfied, but leveraged into their position, will roll through various states of the Threat Cycle.

Even in operable relationships, there can be much decency, yet in flickers of the Threat Cycle can show themselves.

In situations of great imbalance, where the Controller has full leverage on the Deflector, this cycle can become tortuous and inflict a great deal of emotional suffering. The states of this Cycle can be very emotionally charged, and cause the Deflector to mentally enter varying states of resistance, compartmentalization, and preparedness to fight - even if those urges are not actualized.

SUPPRESSION CYCLE

Helplessness is a general sensation that is marked by the sensed cause of failure, or lingering sense of exposure and vulnerability.

Failure is a sensation caused by a sensed "inability to improve a situation". Failure is the general mood atmosphere that percolates form the increasingly impending perception that oneself is unable to handle a situation, moods, mood cycles, or demeanor in others, or the continuously arriving results of one's own known and/or unknown aspects of demeanor.

Because so much of life is hinged on results (manifest experiences from efforts), conflicts in attaining such results whether intercommunicational or circumstantial can lead to looping, redundant cycles of the inability to manifest desire, but more so, the loss of control of how that desire is expressed interior to the mind, or exterior, into the world.

This repeated sensation of inability to direct desire without first correlating that desire to the collective sense of failures (or rather, inability to improve a situation) leads to a sensation that no matter what one dies, says, thinks, or feels - the situation cannot be improved and the continuous stream of inadequate experiences will only continue.

ARDOR CYCLE

SUPERIORITY CYCLES

DOOM CYCLE

The human creature senses Doom as any sort of forthcoming, inevitable, near-irreversible outcome, event, situation, or circumstance. Sense of Doom is further characterized by a more increased, immediate or impending, need to stop, escape, or rearrange the ending or pathway by which the ending is found.

A sense of Doom can be aroused in large or small matters - generally relative to the survival of the person - whether physically, socially, economically, or emotionally.

CONCLUSION - IMPACT & SORROWS

The array of negative effects that we can endure as humans is complex, and has layers of effects. Who we are is altered by experience, and we are possibly pushed onto narrowing channels of modality.
As people move to manipulate people, or get what they want from others, the strange onset of behavior should be understood. Ego driven grasps for power and control can rip a sense of identity from those who such effects touch.
Regaining stability and the ability to contend with such negative forces will be a theme in human life, just as it remains a theme for all life forms.

It can be considered a grave disaster for a person to exploit and degenerate others, and it is truly so. The mild satisfactions one person may get in exhibiting shabby earthly power are of such fractional benefit compared to the internal rewards of a strong, stable modality.

What the afflicts of suffering do not see is the future adjustments they will endure, when awakening to their own situation. To go to sleep on top of the world - yet to wake up on the bottom of the barrel is the greatest fear of those who lust for power to dominate others - yet it is the reality they will face, in no disguise-able or evade-able way, when their eyes open and who they are is washed away each terrible layer, forever.

Who we are is a channel of energy run through our modality - and thus, when everything a person creates is based on inferior objectives in the name of self-betterment at the dire cost of others - who who they are, and what they create will be destroyed by the very qualities they imagined gave them great reward.